At humhum, we believe dating and relationships are powerful opportunities for growth and meaningful human connection. We approach both as a practice.
Practice with new humans every month.
When you join Date Lab, humhum books you on one guided blind date every month to support a consistent dating practice. Additional dates can be added as available.
At the beginning of each date, you’re welcomed by a humhum facilitator, and held within a container designed to foster authentic connection first with yourself, and also with the new human you’re meeting.
How a guided date works.
We’re not matchmakers, we are change-makers, here to empower you to cultivate the romantic relationship(s) you’re worthy of.
Break the Ice
A facilitator welcomes you, and offers agreements and an ice-breaker to create a container rooted in kind attention.
Ground
The facilitator guides you and your date in a grounding practice using mindfulness and breath.
Connect 1:1
Keep practicing with your date in a private, safe video chat room. Explore a fun and meaningful prompt for easeful conversation.
Deepen or Release
Privately, note if you want to stay connected. If there’s mutuality, we connect you. If not, no problem, we release the connection with care.
What people are saying.
Kindness is a much better place to build from.
We are usually pushed to commodify each other so it was a happy shock to be reminded and incentivized to treat each other as humans first and foremost. I loved the encouragement to be intentional—kindness is a much better place to build from.
Zaina
I learned so much about myself.
humhum brought me out of my comfort zone. I learned so much about the way I engage in a dating experience when nervous. The container allowed me to explore what is causing my nerves and comfort zone.
Rachel
It felt like an energizing, fun, intentional use of time.
Dating usually feels like such a drag and this felt so energizing and fun and way more intentional than using the apps. I had a really lovely experience.
Ryan
Join Date Lab
One practice date per month • Access to live webinars, workshops, and in person events in New York and San Francisco • Option to purchase additional practice dates at a discount as available • Option to purchase unlimited coaching sessions • Pause at anytime.
3-Month Membership
$99
for 3 months
renews quarterly
One date per month + additional dates at $29
1-Month Membership
$39
for 1 month
renews monthly
One date per month + additional dates at $33
Webinars, Events, Workshops
Webinars and select virtual events are free to members
We are what we practice—cultivate presence, patience, and curiosity with each new connection.
We’re Curious About You Too!
Speak with someone on our team to learn more about humhum, what we can offer, and how together, we can change the dating paradigm.
